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Some guidelines to help enhance your body language… start adult film production company
...some tips below may sound obvious, but it’s how you use them in the field.
Slow down: Nothing will pressure you more than moving at full speed.
Don't walk fast, don't talk fast and remember to breathe.
Not only will this help calm you down, it'll calm down the adult people around you who pick up on stressful adult vibes.
adult Body language with purpose:
Don’t fidget. Keep your hands out of your pockets.
Don't be frightened to take up a little space.
Display you are at ease in the situation, not out-of-control “hyper” comfortable, but that you are in control and not afraid.
Many men make the mistake by acting too comfortable in situations... starting any porn business.
You may see some guys kick their feet up on chairs, overly lean on bars or counters like they are getting ready to take a nap.
Subtle body language will always win, period. When you think about it, “pick up artists” are actors.
Email any reputable acting coach to some of today’s stars, ask them about subetbly.
Among many secrets to the craft, adult subetlby is key.
You and I both know, body language and subetly go hand-in-hand to displaying comfort that bleeds confidence before any word is spoken.
Whether you realize it or not, women are looking at you, and sizing you up.
Sometimes, when I‘m out anywhere looking for adult women, I’ll place a tiny “lip stick camera” on the back of my shirt collar.
Today’s “lip stick cameras” are so small, and nearly unnoticeable… it blends perfectly when I match the color of my adult camera with my shirt.
Most women do their looking, when your not watching.
If I’m in a club or bar for example, I’ll take a “bath room” break, play back the footage in a bathroom stall, or if my camera needs to be plugged into a computer to play the material, my car is nearby in the parking lot, laptop comes out, play footage, size up which women are sending me signals behind my back, remember the ladies, return to the club to focus my skills on women showing me interest.
Without knowing any of these women “off the bat” before making contact, I’m already armed with instant feedback on them without any of them ever knowing it.
Like a military “drone plane” that collects information, no one will ever see it coming.
Another way to “size up and gain information” from women who are checking you out without your knowledge, is to use a “pocket size listening device” to hear what they are saying about you.
This works best at your local gym, masking the small head phones, so it looks like your listening to music.
Find a group of attractive women talking from a short “reasonable” distance, and don’t be surprised how sexual they are when they are talking among themselves.
The goal to this is for gaining clues, on which ones are very sexual, and what they are saying about you.
Technolgy is awesome.
Why waste your time or game trying to “pick up” a prude woman, when you already have the information to know which women are interested in you, and are very sexual in nature themselves?
For example, on serval occasions at the gym, armed with my masked listening device, I heard women talking among themselves while working out, discussing “blow jobs”, how much they loved doing it, and even complaining why most guys never approached them.
Not because they were ugly, because most men were too intimidated to approach a very sexy woman in fear of rejection.
Obviously, women love to flirt and tease.
When my “listening device” picks up a woman talking about sex or blowjobs, instead of playing “Mr. Macho” man, I play the victim.
Once again, I’ll open up by subtly asking her “How do you keep your ab’s looking so good?”
If I ask her about her ass, she’s gone.
I play it clean and cool, and after she explains the types of excercises, I play the victim by explaing to her about a pulled muscle from my inner thigh, placing my hand about 7 or 8 inches from my crotch.
Obviosult, women by nature are nurturing.
The ball is in her court, which almost always brings up the adult question “How did you pull out your leg?” from her.
I pause from responding on purpose and use my face to act embarrassed. The less she knows, the more she wants. I already know she is a sexual person.
It’s just a matter of slowing hinting the answer that she’s trying to beat out of me… that I pulled my leg muscle from having sex.
The ice is completely broken.
I already know she is a very sexual person well before I even approached her… then planting a question, not a “pick up”.